Getting back in the dating game is hard.I got out of a 3 yr. relationship recently and my friends expect me to jump back in head first,but the thing is that I miss the familiarity of a relationship,I miss that we knew each other completely,our hopes and goals and fears.I feel like when dating you have to play games and be cool, but I'm not cool nor do I like playing games that involve the guy waiting a week to call or me pretending that I care how much horsepower his car has.Why can't I have a smart conversation with someone just for the sake of talking and if something romantic happens that will just be because we're comfortable enough to act on that.I don't think I can just go hunting for a guy or be hunted by a guy at a club,bar,supermarket,etc.I seem to be surrounded by guys looking to " hook up" and I'm not the "hook up" girl, I like getting to know someone and being able to trust,but maybe that's my problem maybe I should be more outgoing and open to "hook up" guys...maybe not.
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